Settling In

Preparing for settling in

Joining a new kindergarten is a big change for children and their families. To make the settling in process smoother and easier, families can do the following:

  • Get to know the settling in process in the kindergarten and what will be expected of you during this time

  • Explain the process in a simple way to your child. During the initial meeting you could ask for the kindergarten’s timeline and use this with your child

  • Involve the child in the preparations. Keep the mood light and positive. Go shopping together for anything required when joining the kindergarten such as a backpack, water bottle or a new stuffed animal

  • Breastfeeding: create a rhythm so that your child no longer needs breastfeeding during the hours they will be at kindergarten.

  • Prepare anything else your child may need to make them feel secure in the setting. You can bring a family photo from home, a sleeping toy and/or blanket that can help with settling in.

Go with the flow

Although not always easy, it is important that you try to relax during this early sensitive stage. It is natural that your child may be nervous. Validating their feelings, allowing them to adjust at their own pace and offering them security is a vital part of the process.